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If you’re a guy – it won’t be as easy, but the existence of such nanpa-shi illustrate that it’s neither strange nor culturally insensitive to talk to strangers on the street – in fact, it is very much a part of Japanese culture.During this “Magic Hour” probably the single best place to meet women is on the street near the station.

Some might move away wordlessly – this means they are either not interested or waiting for someone – but don’t be disheartened.

In Shinjuku, these areas are right outside the Kabukicho exit, in front of Alta (with the large TV monitor overhead) next to the fruit shop, and outside the west exit.

In Ikebukuro the West and East exit are both good, although the East exit is more younger “normal” crowds, and the West exit tends to be more salarymen and red light crowds (including workers heading to and from their shifts, if that’s your thing).

Keep in mind that as groups splinter off heading to different train lines, you generally have only until the ticket gates to make a good impression before she enters the station.

Within the first minute or two you want to communicate that: While many of the Japanese nanpa-shi will offer short, rapid-fire invitations to girls with low probability of success, you can easily outperform them by adjusting your game to be a bit more human and less robotic and shady. Mention whatever it was you were just doing – eating with friends, drinking, etc. Ideally, by the time you invite her, she’s paying attention to you and engaging with you in conversation.