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MORE: Aziz Ansari: Everything You Thought You Knew About Love Is Wrong In all these cases, one person thought the other was violating what they perceived to be best texting practices.

Though not everyone agrees on what those guidelines are, people feel strongly that their view is the right one. Though these rules apply to both genders, outdated mores still tend to guide them.

In a 2015 poll by the Gravitate Research Group, 80% of Americans said they prefer texting to voice calls, and the average American spends 26 minutes texting every day.

So texting compatibility can be an important signifier of how communication would work in a long-term relationship.

A 24-year-old friend and medical student living in Chicago, Madeleine Boesche, says texting issues convinced her to break things off with an older man she was seeing.

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That’s what a 24-year-old friend I’ll call Jane found after falling for a guy she met on dating app Coffee Meets Bagel after weeks of messaging.It’s no wonder, then, that text message miscommunications were a daily source of stress and anxiety.It was yet another box to check as we sought a significant other: textual chemistry.It’s very hard for single people to know when they’ve gotten out of that ‘game’ stage.” MORE: How to Find Love Online, According to the Founder of OKCupid In her book, Turkle writes about a man she met who thinks the time he takes to carefully structure text responses makes him a better person, communicator and mate.Predictably, his relationship falls apart when he’s confronted with in-person conversations that demand equally thoughtful, emotional or witty responses as those he would take 10 minutes to craft over text message, but which he cannot replicate in the split seconds of live conversation. So you just share with each other in a way that makes sense without worrying about looking desperate or not, anxious or not,” says Turkle. One New York couple I know that’s been dating for four years limits their texts strictly to logistics. “It often weirds people out that we just aren’t in contact that much, but we have a mutual inability to text-converse,” the woman says of her significant other.